Re-read and edit your description, focusing on the positive

Perhaps, you were too harsh or spoke badly of your ex, colleagues, relatives or life in general. Remove all negative statements or you will make a bad impression. Better write about your favorite activities or funny occasions.

Discussing negative experiences you had with your ex is taboo

However bad your ex was, complaining about them on a dating site is the worst thing you could do. Praising or pitying them while berating themselves is also not recommended. …


What’s the best way to talk about yourself on a dating app? Let us share a few life hacks.

A story about yourself

Don’t write a dry account of your life, as you would when applying for a job. Write creatively, using comparisons, an engaging style and irony. Don’t be afraid to tell others about your flaws and weaknesses, but try sharing them in a friendly and positive way. Once you are done, re-read your text. Does it sound good? If you think so, this means that others will like it too.

A catchy status

It could be a quote…


The first impression of a potential partner is formed with the profile photo. The more interesting it is, the more responses it will get. You don’t need to create an entire gallery, but a single photo is not enough. The optimal number is 4–5 photos shot from different angles.

Here are the main rules for selecting a photo for your dating profile:

Eye contact

Post photos in which you are looking directly at the camera in a friendly way. This means making eye contact with potential partners. Such photos immediately create an atmosphere of trust and friendliness. At least one…


Women’s equality day is August 26, as designated by Congress in 1971. Women’s Equality Day celebrates the end of Women’s suffrage and the passage of the 19th Amendment. It is important to remember the women who came before us and their heroism that allows us to enjoy today’s freedoms.

Why is it so Important for Women to Have Equal Rights?

Is this a stupid question? It might be to some, but what reason is there for women not to have equal rights. Women work just as hard and deserve the right to vote, have equal pay, and everything else granted to Americans by the Constitution.

OK, that got a little intense…


It may seem like a daunting task to try and find the right people when fishing through dating apps. Odds are you will think too many people are just wrong for you and that you will never find someone.

The problem is you need to have a better mindset. There is someone out there for everyone; you just need to know how to find them.

Know What You Are Looking For

No, this isn’t a stupid piece of advice. People complain about not finding anyone, and when they do, it’s not the right person. Well, do you even know what you want? …


We can get a lot from a relationship: love, warmth, support and security. But in fact, we understand the meaning of these words in very different ways. There are people for whom security is power and control over a partner. They use a variety of methods of psychological abuse to get what they want.

When we hear about it we immediately feel uneasy. We want to be able to recognize which people who are dangerous to our physical and mental health. …


Have you ever met someone and felt a strong connection with them? Have you ever been so sure about someone that it just seems like they were meant to be in your life? If so, the chances are that person is your soul mate.

However, many people don’t realize this and spend their lives looking for the one who will make them complete. Luckily, there are ways to find out if the person you have feelings for is actually your soul mate or not!

What To Look For So You Don’t Have To Ask

Asking them if they are a soul mate is the easiest way to find out, but…


Avoid talking to and meeting with your ex for at least two months

Protect yourself as much as possible from accidentally running into your ex. If you are likely to cross paths on your way to work, change your route. Find a new place to shop or play sports.

The same goes for messages and calls. It’s better to temporarily block your ex-partner on social networks or remove their number from your phone than to constantly see them online or in your contacts.

Take up sports

Physical activity releases the so called “happy hormones”. …


Go on staying together

This is an obvious mistake, but your brain may disguise it as an excuse, like hanging out with friends. And now you are already having dinner with mutual friends, or together, going to the cinema, meeting at a bar, arranging home gatherings. This only increases your emotional attachment to your ex.

Thinking you are true soulmates

Continuing to believe you are the only person who can understand your ex only feeds the illusion. All the night-time, heart-to-heart conversations are only dragging you deeper into the past. …


Conflicts and their resolution are the only way to achieving harmony as a couple. Find out what you can gain if you stop avoiding conflict.

You will trust each other more

Conflicts that cannot be quickly resolved terrify many couples so much that they try to avoid them by all means. They believe such quarrels to be fatal to the relationship… but this is completely wrong.

After resolving a conflict you will be less afraid of the next one. You will trust yourself and your partner more, knowing that you can handle disagreements. As a result, you will not put…

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